Dependent Origination

Knocked Up, The Back-up Plan

Posted on: August 18, 2010

两个电影超级像。一个是单身的时候随便ons结果不小心怀孕了,但是两个人还是决定要试一试,看看能不能work it out。另一个是大龄剩女觉得没希望了,不如自己赶紧的生个孩子。结果insemination的第一天就认识了超级有感觉的帅哥。帅哥经过痛苦的思索决定和剩女一起抚养孩子,建设未来。可是剩女剩下来不是没有原因的,于是发生很多没有必要的争吵,但是romantic comedy吗,总是会和好的。

Knocked up是普通男生的day dream, 靠自己的幽默争取到美女的喜爱。在酒吧里面,看到Heigl居然停下来等着胖子搭谄,简直不可思议的说。胖子当然是有胖子的好,但是美女们通常不会停下来给这么普通的人这几秒钟的。

The back-up plan是剩女们的day dream。剩到什么时候了,还指望有英俊浪漫体贴还有家业的帅哥出现。而且,这个帅哥还特别的认真。现实生活中,刚刚萌发好感的dating对象们怀了孕,愿意留下来继续发展感情,继续了解对方的有可能存在吗。当然世界上肯定有特例,但是大多数情况,和大多数人,还是会走开。或者过上两三年双方还单身的话,再重新开始吧。之间估计也就是打打电话维系一下当作朋友帮帮忙这个样子吧。

从故事来看,knocked up要真实的多。毕竟孩子是两个人的,男方的参与是有人情基础的。而且双方的emotional development, albeit brief and shallow, is still real。 相比而言,大龄剩女太难理解了,频频将帅哥推出门外,偏偏这个帅哥还不肯离开。实在令人难以理解。

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